Sunday, March 11, 2012

Making Hay on a Sunday in March

It isn't very often - no, wait, it is completely unique, having never happened before - that I write to each and every one of my LinkedIn contacts simultaneously. But as the proverb goes, "circumstances alter cases."

The "circumstance" that causes me to risk Web-wide ire at my misuse and abuse of Reid Hoffman's gallantly unspoiled business tool is the arrival of the 365th day of survival since being operated on for pancreatic cancer. One entire year! Never has a year taken so long, never have 365 days seemed more like 1,365. But a year it is, and given the givens it deserves to be marked in some way. This is my way.

Worry not, I am not going to hit you up for money. (Even though the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network could most certainly always use it.) I am not even going to hit you up for emotion.

Nope. Far worse than that, I am going to hit you up - briefly - for attention. Because, to be brutally blunt, it isn't at all clear what kind of timeline anyone lives on once pancreatic cancer rears its ugly head; and so my resolution today is to make hay while I can - or, as the Hindus apparently put it, to turn the mill while there is still sugarcane.

The chances are that you will know someone who has been diagnosed with cancer, perhaps even with pancreatic cancer. If so then, like my wife and children the day I was diagnosed in a hospital in faraway Sarajevo (pictured below), you probably headed straight to Google...and were startled by what you found.

KoŇ°evo Hospital, the university hospital of Sarajevo in Bosnia

Few diseases, I suspect, return search results quite as gloomy as pancreatic cancer. A typical one is as follows:

Pancreatic cancer has a dismal survival rate...

or this

overall survival is dismal - 20 percent after one year and only 4 percent after five years

I mean, I am no statistician, and neither were any of my four kids, but these "survival rate" stats read, back then, less like a glimpse of hope and more like a death sentence.

But then when the heck did anyone ever rely on statistics, right? Besides, what matters is how early the tumor is found (earlier = smaller = better), whether it is deemed to be operable, and how well the surgery goes. There don't seem to be any stats for those lucky enough to have undergone a Whipple operation - the life-saving, if radical, surgical procedure that, 365 days ago today, was how I spent my morning.

I have already written briefly about the experience of being both diagnosed with the deadliest of all the cancers and spared/saved from it all within the space of three weeks. I had a stab, too, at trying to sum up what it is like, after the Whipple, to be prescribed follow-up chemotherapy for seven long months. None of these posts was very well written, but the intent was just to share an experience, in case might help provide some kind of insight either to those who had worse luck than mine, perhaps even to those who fared better in similar circumstances...and most especially to the rest of you who have been lucky enough not to one day, just three months after completing your third New York Marathon, be told completely out of the blue that you've got the deadliest of all the cancers. Remember to say a brief 'thank you' tonight in your prayers!

Here's how it went down 365 days ago in Copenhagen University Hospital (Rigshospitalet), which is where I had the Whipple procedure - in which, as one fellow pancreatic survivor recently put it, "Everything around the pancreas that can be removed, cut, whacked, chopped, is."

Rigshospitalet, the university hospital of Copenhagen in Denmark

Reassured by the fact that around thirty of these operations are performed each year by this same team of surgeons, I remember one year ago today smiling first at my wife, who was right there beside me as they prepped me for the op, then at the anesthetist whose job it was to put me under...and saying a private little prayer in my head, before oblivion took over.

There's something curiously daunting about going to sleep in full possession of your innards, but with the certain prospect of waking up with your inventory of bodily organs severely depleted.

The lion's share of my pancreas, all of my gall bladder, a goodly portion of my stomach, and an assortment of small-intestine-removal later...I did indeed wake up. And what a relief it was to find that 1. I was alive and kicking and 2. that I was in no kind of pain - just "downsized" internally. In fact I was now significantly less complicated under the hood!

Departments of Surgical Gastroenterology are probably not famous for being fun places to hang out, but if you have to for one reason or another - including this Whipple operation, which is one of the most complicated they do - I can certainly recommend the incredible team at Copenhagen's Rigshospital.

Recovery from a Whipple is an especially brutal process because the basic trick is to do it just as fast as humanly possible, getting back onto one's feet almost immediately, even if only to stand up. Other tricks include repeatedly saturating one's system with oxygen via special breathing exercises that have been shown to speed up the post-operative healing process...even though the last thing you instinctively want to do, when your midriff has been more or less sliced into two, is to breathe deeply. (Trust me on this!)

365 Days Ago Today - "Smile, you're on Blogger.com!"

Whipple patients typically lose 10% of their body weight in the pre- and post-operative period. It has taken an entire year to put even half of that back on! You might think that it every teenage schoolgirl's dream, but I am no teenage schoolgirl and I can tell you, nothing is stranger than finding that none of the things you ate before are going to help you put weight back on...and that instead you have to become a fat-chaser, a scavenger on the lookout for calories wherever you can find them.

I failed miserably, for at least the first three months. Putting butter on my bread, ignoring most vegetables as having insufficient protein for the amount of room they took up in my tummy, these sorts of changes seem simple - but they are not! I adore, sorry past tense, I adored, salads. But lettuce leaves and spinach leaves and suchlike are a thing of the past, once the part of the pancreas that produces enzymes is tossed into the surgical waste-bin. Because there's nothing to help digest them...which means basically that they get stuck, and it is excruciatingly painful as well as deeply frustrating.

The pancreas is of course where your insulin is manufactured too. The after-effects of Whipple surgery differ according to how much or how little of the pancreas is left by the surgeons, but in my case all I can say is, though incredibly lucky to be left with at least a bit of it, the process of eating say an orange or a banana seems to have been undermined forever. (Guess what my two absolute favorite fruits were? I guess one should never take ANYTHING for granted. I wonder how many bananas and oranges I scoffed over the years without ever really giving it a thought; whereas now, those two tastes are almost foreign to me, I can hardly remember either of them.)

Worries over dietary changes and internal rearrangements were pushed firmly onto the back burner the day, on the very point of leaving hospital and being declared a resounding success from a surgical point of view, I was told that seven months of chemotherapy was going to be needed too. Belt and suspenders. Pancreatic cancer is like the worst kind of serial killer, and no one was intending for me to take any chances.

So I had survived the disease. Now all I needed was to survive the cure!

As I say, I already wrote about what it's like, after the Whipple, to be prescribed follow-up chemotherapy for seven long months. That was at the mid-way point. Since my 189 days of chemo ended, my overall health seems from the outside enviable - and probably is, at least to almost everyone but me, who feels it has been disappointingly slow, unexpectedly erratic, and very little different from during chemo itself. Energy levels remain fluctuating rather than steady, sleep patterns likewise, and concentration is a word that seems almost to have tumbled out of my dictionary for good.

The ugly question naturally reared itself: if the Whipple surgery went so well (and it did, the surgeons were 100% adamant about that), why wasn't I by now back to Marathon form, both professionally and personally? And the answer will come shortly...courtesy of the bloodwork and the scanning techniques that Rigshospital once again is bringing to bear on this onetime athlete's body of mine. Cross your fingers; certainly I am crossing mine on this anniversary of anniversaries. One thing is sure: it isn't for want of trying - I have been trying once more to use running as my health barometer, and really have tried again and again and again to get back my running Mojo - just as, professionally, I have sought to regain my Cloud Mojo.

But it appears that convalescence is not only a question of mind over matter. Sometimes one needs "a little help from one's friends" - including, in this case, from Copenhagen University Hospital's brilliant oncologists - who understand the nuances of X-ray computed tomography!

Once they've advised me how best to proceed from here, I shall let you know (more succinctly next time, I promise!) how the future trajectory is looking. Hopefully the current little setback will be put into context and the overall prognosis will turn out to be simply Cloudtastic ;-)

17 comments:

  1. Jeremy
    Don't know you that well, usually I'm bugging you about positing on CCJ or Cloud Expo slots, so I wanted to tell you I was touched by your story. I wish you all the strength to keep beating the stats!!! Your Cloud Mojo hardly missed a beat!!!

    Ken

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  2. Jeremy: Wonderful post and I'm so happy that you're at this milepost on your journey. Be well and happy. With love, Kate

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  3. Jeremy, What an incredible story. I did not know full details. My father died of pancreatic cancer. It is a brutal disease. That was long before Whipple surgery. You were in the hands of the right doctors and although you might like to see faster progress -- and get back to Marathon shape-- I marvel at your intellectual energy level. You haven't lost that and everything else will come back. Have faith! My open heart surgery is approaching its one year anniversary as well, and it is a journey to return to full form. All the best to you, Kirsten, and family. Yours, Bob

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  4. Hi Jeremy,
    You must be feeling better to be writing online again and your concentration must be returning for you to write so well. For me it's 11 years (and not bothering to count any longer) since I had chemo for breast cancer, and if I remember rightly the effects of "chemo brain" continue for months after the actual treatment. For me the low point was not being able to remember Elvis' second name. Was it Costello? Was it The King? The shop assistant at HMV looked at me strangely and led me over to the "P" section.
    Take it easy -- getting better really is a full time job. Love to Kirsten and the family.

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  5. Thanks for taking the time to write this and share. It means a lot to us readers to hear proof that the strong survive. I wish you only the best to you, your health and your family. I hope that anyone in the world who needs this surgery can have access to it.

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  6. Thanks for your honest and fascinating story, Jeremy, and for your courage in sharing it. And, finally, thanks for the linguistic panache with which you delivered it! I'm afraid you failed in not hitting me up for emotion -- that seems inevitable with a tale such as yours. But I feel privileged to hear it, and I am proud of you and your family!

    I have one request. Let's schedule a run in NYC in June during the Cloud Expo / RightScale conference. I don't care how long or short it is. And I'd bet we'd have a small crowd if you're willing :)

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  7. Jeremy - Over the past 14 years I have seen the discussion evolve from appserver to clouds with you leading the way. The trajectory is heading in the right direction.

    I still recommend that you grab sometime at the Vineyard. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  8. J -

    Thanks so much for sharing your story. It's wonderful to hear.

    You've added so much to the world (or at least to the worlds of those of us who've known you) and it's so wonderful for you, your family and the rest of us that you're still a part of it here with us.

    If you find yourself in NY and schedule the run that Michael Crandell above is proposing, please share the details so I might have a chance to come down and join in.

    Wishing you continued health and happiness.
    K.

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  9. Good Evening, Good Afternoon, Good Morning where ever you are, my thoughts are with you, i am huge fan of yours and i loved the chance to produce some of your webcasts. Wishing you nothing but the best!

    Ben

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  10. Jeremy:
    thank you for sharing and congratulations on your 1 year anniversary. This story means a lot to me, having just lost my mother-in-law to cancer last April. All the best wishes for your future!
    Best,
    Alexander

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  11. Thanks for reaching out Jeremy. This is really good perspective for the fast growth company CEO to be reminded that 'scoffing' at an orange or blowing off that run could be something that I could easily one day regret. I wish you all the best and appreciate that you are sharing your journey with those around you. All the best,

    Kevin

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  12. Jeremy -

    As you and I have previously discussed, I'm very much in amazement over your mental attitude and stamina. I'm hoping to see you in NYC in June and perhaps we can organize a little run if you are up for it. Best, John

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  13. Jeremy - Thanks for sharing your story. I can only imagine how hard this past year must have been, but your positive attitude and the strength of your family appear to be keeping you strong and moving forward. That is wonderful.

    I had no idea you were such a runner either... that's great, I picked up marathoning a couple years ago and try to travel around to different places each year just so I can run somewhere new. If you find yourself out in the Denver area at some point in the future, don't hesitate to reach out.

    Godspeed,

    -Josh

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  14. Jeremy,

    Good morning, Good afternoon, Good evening, wherever you happen to be reading this on the worldwide web....I greatly appreciate your wit, charm, and ability to turn-a-phrase.

    I had no idea that you are such an avid runner. I think the next Cloud Computing Expo should open with a group run. In fact, we could have it be 1k for every month since your procedure. Thus we'd have a 15k at the event in June and then work ourselves up to 20k in time for the November event in Santa Clara!

    Thank you for taking the time to share this inspiring story with all of us.

    Take care and God bless.

    Kyle

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  15. Congratulations for reaching this milestone and best of luck in reaching the next one. It sounds like you're in good hands, as evidenced by your having already beaten the odds. Best of luck!

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  16. Jeremy,

    Congrats on reaching this milestone, I look forward to celebrating many, many more with you.

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